I don’t typically write posts about personal products or fashion, although I love reading sites that do! Inspiration to break out came by way of Polished Pebble, a blog site written by the very talented Kelley.
Early this year she published a piece about New Year’s organizing. You know what that’s like, second only to spring cleaning, it’s such a great way to start the new year. She covered the essentials where her winter wardrobe (enviable) is concerned and mentioned in closing,
Will someone please write a post about purses and analyze why we put so much stuff in them…it’s truly amazing. It’s as if we women were taught at an early age that the ability to cram your entire life into a smallish bag (which you will then carry around your neck until you need surgery, is part of growing up

I carry this Coach bag when I trade off on purses (a favorite) but it weighs as much as the other one when loaded with my stuff…heavy.
So I just couldn’t resist the temptation to pare down my handbag contents. I’ve successfully pared down most of the closets, drawers and cupboards in our home, why can’t I do this? It should be easy, right?
First of all, here is an inventory of what I carry in the current suitcase purse I lug it around (the items I’ve lined through I’m going to try to eliminate). {By the way, I’ve never managed to be organized enough to change purses for different outfits. I tend to carry a purse until it dies, or I tire of it, and then buy or switch to another to start a new cycle}
- Mobile phone
- 7” x 4 ½” makeup bag that includes lipstick, magnifying pocket mirror (don’t ask),
sewing kit, nail clippers, small blush,highlighter, eyelinermaybe I’ll switch to a smaller cosmetic bag - Tissue and a couple of band aids – you never know when you might get a blister from a new pair of shoes.
- Pen & Field Notes book
- A few coupons keep the coupons in the car?
- Hand lotion smaller size?
- Gum maybe I don’t need this
- Small tape measure
- Travel sized pill box, filled with antacid, allergy and headache pills – I rarely use these items, but when you have a headache, you know how important they are.
- Comb
- Smallish wallet
- Travel sized sunscreen maybe make sure the sunscreen is on before I leave the house?
- Reading glasses / Sunglasses
- Keys
- Superfluous items ie. the dozen or so frequent buyer cards, promising deep discounts and the like. keep these in the car?
I weighed my purse and it’s 5 1/2 lbs. Seriously? Why am I carrying so much stuff.
So I received a bag like this a couple of years ago from my sweet daughter in law—in black. I don’t think I can manage it for daily use, but I love carrying it to evening affairs.
I’m going to make it a goal, pare down the handbag, try really hard not to need some of the items I’m used to having on hand, and start shopping for something that will be more manageable—any excuse for a new purse!
What’s in your purse? ♥ Karen
Donna said:
Love all your purses…sure as you eliminate one item, you will need it. Since I was a wee tot, I’ve had an affinity for purses, handbags, totes and pokes. Part of what I carry is for the hubster…I’m sure he wouldn’t carry a …hmmm, what do they call a man purse?
Karen B. said:
Hi Donna,
I also end up carrying sunglasses and keys for the mister. Same with my Mr. B, there is no way he’d carry a man bag. 🙂
Thanks so much for stopping by.
Karen
debra @ 5th and state said:
IS THAT A LOUIS I SEE?!? in the cutest pattern ever????? how did i miss that!
the larger i buy, the heavier it gets. my current fav is a huge slouch bag by tory burch, but it is an endless pit. the only thing going for me is i set my iPhone to flash when it rings or i would never find it
xoxo
aka ms disorganization
Karen B. said:
Debra, No, no Louis for me. Not in the budget! 🙂 I like the Dooney Bourke that I’m carrying because it has a connection leash for the keys. My car is keyless and when I do have to fish the keys out I just pull the leash attached to the side and I can retrieve them. Otherwise, like you, my purse might as well be a pit with no end. 🙂 xo, Karen
On Wed, Apr 27, 2016 at 8:56 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Sharon said:
We are soul sisters! I also carry everything but the kitchen sink in my handbag – just in case xx Sharon
Karen B. said:
Could it be because we are the mothers of sons? I always wanted to carry snack, first aid and box drinks! xo, Karen
On Wed, Apr 27, 2016 at 9:17 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Reviving Charm said:
I have that same Coach Willis bag! I used it a lot for traveling because it has a long handle and makes for a great cross body bag also, but it can get heavy. The more I read your blog, the more I realize how much we have in common!
I alternate purses very often so the trick is to carry lots of little pouches making it easier for me to transfer stuff back and forth. Otherwise, the bottom of my purse becomes a black hole. I am currently using a Ferragamo tote bag. When I bought it I took my Nikon camera into the shop to make sure I found a bag that would fit it. The salesperson thought I was nuts! That gives you a sense of how large my bag is. Your post made me look inside…I realized that I don’t think I need to be carrying around the David Austin rose catalog anymore….lol!
fun post.
Karen B. said:
Vanessa, So true, I find I’ll stick a small book in my purse and forget to take it out…it worms its way to the bottom, under the make up bag and wallet and voila, I’m carrying a 10 lb. purse! 🙂 Karen
On Wed, Apr 27, 2016 at 10:26 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Vicki said:
What a fun post. It does start young. Did you see the picture of Queen Elizabeth with her great-granddaughter hefting the Queen’s purse?
For the most part I keep mine pared down, (keys on a leash definitely helps!) but when I travel, all bets are off. It’s amazing how much I think I need right at my fingertips.
Karen B. said:
Vicki, The picture of the Queen with her grand and great grandchildren was my favorite of all of the Annie Leibovitz photographs taken. The little girl with the purse looks pleased. How cute it that? xo, Karen
On Wed, Apr 27, 2016 at 11:23 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Teri Andrs said:
I use an app on my phone called keyring for all of my loyalty cards. It helped get rid the extra cards and keyring I used to carry around.
Karen B. said:
Teri,
This is the best comment! I would love to lighten the load of my loyalty cards. I’ll check it out.
Thank you for stopping by and offering such helpful info.
Karen
Linda Coble said:
Hi Karen,
My purse is a catch-all for just about everything. As much as I try to cut down on the items I carry; the more I keep cramming into my purse — wallet, check book, glasses (sunglasses and reading), Kindle, i-phone. Whatever I can’t squeeze in, I keep in my car. I keep thinking back to a quote from Rhoda Morgenstern on the Mary Tyler Moore show, “My car is like a big purse on wheels.” Unfortunately, my purse has gotten so heavy that my seatbelt light goes on when I put on the passenger seat.
Karen B. said:
Linda, That is what happens to me too! I have to buckle the passenger seat belt for my purse otherwise the dang alarm won’t stop! xo, Karen
On Wed, Apr 27, 2016 at 1:58 PM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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trouverlesoleil said:
Such a fun post Karen! I used to carry more in my bag when the kids were little. I like clutches and cross body bags so I need to be selective as to what goes on. If I am carrying a tote.. it fills up quick😊
Karen B. said:
Hi Leslie, That’s my goal, to slowly pare down so that I’m not carrying everything but the kitchen sink. Like all new directions, it may take me awhile. 🙂 xo, Karen
On Wed, Apr 27, 2016 at 4:22 PM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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The Lady's Life said:
Fun post! Here goes…Like you, I am a serial monogamist when it comes to bags, and I was carrying just too much! I recently decided to sell my LV bag, and bought a black Tumi Arrive Lucas Crossbody messenger bag. It nylon with leather trim and is made really beautifully. It has a front section with pockets, two main zipped sections and a center section that I can drop my wallet into and fetch quickly. I hate it when I have to dig and fumble around with my bag, it just looks so inelegant. I can sling it cross-body so I have for the first time in, oh, 15 years, TWO free hands! Yay. A black leather zip travel wallet from Brooks Bros. that holds cash/cards/change etc., even my passport, and my iPhone 5s in a pinch. It also has a pen loop. (Another peeve is searching for a pen!) I pared down from my usual McGuyver-esque assortment of be-prepared items. Currently my lipstick is floating loose, so I’m looking for a small beautiful cosmetic pouch, and a pretty paper notepad. Other than that I have hand sanitizer and tickets to Historic Garden Week.
Karen B. said:
Okay, Nina. I’m looking this bag up online. I agree, when a purse has plenty of separate storage spots, it makes it so much easier to find the items. I’m going to try keeping the loyalty cards and such in my car. I typically drive when I shop. I’m always quick to compliment a retail establishment for only requiring a phone number for the loyalty program. My “wallet” is a zipper smallish rectangle by Coach that holds my money, DL and credit cards. I can do this, right? Thanks for the tips. xo, Karen
On Wed, Apr 27, 2016 at 8:02 PM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Dawn said:
I love thinking about ‘tidying up’ our purses, Karen! 🙂 I had to laugh at so many of the same things we are carrying around. As a former Girl Scout and retired second grade teacher, I’m always prepared with band aids and tissues. Most of my purses are quite small. I make sure that they can hold my small camera. I always have a tiny tape measure, too. You just never know when you will find the perfect antique and have to measure it on the spot! ♡
Karen B. said:
Dawn, So true, it’s those little things that somehow seem to band together in my purse to make it impossible to find what I’m looking for. I use my phone as a camera when I’m not traveling or photographing a special event, but still, I must figure something out. Karen
On Fri, Apr 29, 2016 at 8:29 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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D'Arcy H said:
Karen, if I’d written this post, it would look almost the same, starting with an Easter pic of me at 5 years old, carrying a straw purse. And, I have a black Coach knock-off that’s nearly identical to yours. In fact, my contents list is almost identical to yours, except that I include a Tide pen for sloppy eating disasters, and I replace gum with tiny Altoids. I keep my notebook in the car but I often wish I had one in my purse. I have to carry a hangnail nipper and nail file. I am incredibly picky about purses. They must have exactly the right pockets and features, which are my key to keeping everything organized. No bucket bags that are like bottomless pits for me!
Happy weekend!! –D’Arcy
Karen B. said:
D’Arcy, I think if I could have more compartments I’d be happy. I just have one zipper pouch in my current purse, and all of my stuff ends up in a pile in the bottom! Enjoy your weekend. xo, Karen
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On Apr 29, 2016, at 4:54 PM, Garden, Home & Party wrote: