I look forward to starting a new year with a list of ideas, goals and resolutions (I actually only set about 2-3 new resolutions, I don’t like to face the let-down of failure).
I draw inspiration from a number of different resources that I keep on the bookshelf in our study {sometimes I need a refresher mid-year}. There are a couple of books that consistently motivate and help remind me of what my priorities are. One of my long time favorites is the 1986 publication of “Living a Beautiful Life” by Alexandra Stoddard. This book is a go-to reminder to stop and enjoy day-to-day living.
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In her book, Alexandra offers simple steps for enriching daily life. While I’ve read the book many times over the years, when re-read I always uncover some new information like:
- “Work smarter, not harder. When overwhelmed, take a break from whatever is causing pressure and attend to some necessary tasks that will please you and bring instant gratification.” This is sound advice for me since I work full time and sometimes find the stress of all I’d like to accomplish too much to handle.
- One of my favorite recommendations from this book is to always take time to bring fresh flowers into your home. Ms. Stoddard even gives you tips on how to make a fresh bouquet last longer than the typical short number of days. There is something so simple and satisfying about fresh flowers in the rooms we spend the most time in. During the winter months when our gardens are mostly bare of blooms, a small bouquet from your local florist or market can give you a lift.
Even if you have to buy a flowering house plant…flowers put a smile on my face!
- “This one is a favorite…Daydreaming can help the brain promote essential cross-circuiting of your creativity. Giving your brain a nap; it will work smarter.” How lucky for me…I love to daydream.
Above all, as the New Year looms, starting out with a positive attitude, throw in determination for good measure, and a short list of goals and you can make home life in 2011 the best yet.
Do you have any resolutions you’d like to share?
Trish said:
Hi Karen. Love that suggestion about daydreaming! It helps while you’re working through the to-do list! Happy New Year, Trish
Karen said:
Trish,
Who knew it (daydreaming) had such positive effect on our lives!
I wish you and yours the best New Year!
It’s been fun meeting new blog friends.
Karen
Linda Wilson said:
Karen, Happy New Year to you both! Like the idea of keeping fresh flowers in the home. Carla and Joyce are so good about this. My first toast is to you and Hubby for the greatest new year. Linda
Karen said:
Linda,
Happy New Year’s to you—I’m certain you guys will have fun!
I agree, fresh flowers are such a great way to pamper yourself and your family.
Karen
Linda Coble said:
Karen, I love the idea of fresh flowers in the house. I resolve to try harder to keep a positive attitude and (finally) meet my goal of losing some weight. Happy New Year to you and Lyn! Linda
Karen said:
Linda,
Fresh flowers can sometimes be more challenging—but even a few wild branches and a small bouquet do the trick.
You are positive, we all have occasional lapses, it’s okay.
Have a wonderful New Year and hopefully all of our resolutions will be accomplished over 2011.
xo,
Karen
Gretchen said:
I’m also a fan of Alexandra Stoddard and her ideas about how to live a “gracious” life. Like you, I always keep fresh flowers in my house. It really does help lift the spirits! My resolution for the new year – stay positive!!!
Karen said:
Gretchen,
You are a beacon of positive energy—I hope to remain as positive as possible. It’s a worthy goal.
xo,
Karen
Valerie @ Chateau A La Mode said:
Hi Karen, Love the idea of fresh flowers in the home…even when my house is a mess, I bring a fresh cut rosebud in and somehow it all seems better. I haven’t made my list of resolutions yet…I better get started only a few hours left. Happy New Year to you!
Valerie
Karen said:
Hi Valerie,
I hope 2011 is a happy and healthy year for us all.
I’m so happy to have met you in this wonderful world of blog land.
Karen