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Note: My vacation-starved brain gave information that I believe was confusing about son#1. No surprise, I can start typing full-speed and things get away from me. (Read: I don’t proof read as thoroughly as I should) so…to clear things up. Son $1 is married to a wonderful woman, they live in Austin and best of all, they have a daughter. Since she is our first grandchild, we’re a little over the moon when around her. Son #2 is engaged to be married December 1, 2012. We are thrilled with his choice for our second DIL to be joining our family. I raised 2 sons, if you have male children you will undoubtedly understand how great it is to be welcoming some girls into the family…a little balance.
And for those who asked for pictures…here’s one on the carrousel during Olivia’s visit. We didn’t get to the big carrousel we intended to (time flew) but we managed the little one and Olivia loved it.
She looks unsure, but we got off and she immediately wanted to ride again.
So on to the topic at hand…summer’s end in sight
It’s nice to be back. There is nothing like a little vacation to give you a healthy perspective on what’s important to you. When you’re bogged down with work and life, feeling less than imaginative/creative, blog posts can become a bit of a chore…if you have a blog, you undoubtedly understand where I’m coming from. How do some of you post daily? I’m always wowed.
Time away made me realize that I choose to blog, no one holds a gun to my head, I don’t have sponsors or advertisers, so this is strictly something I want to do or I’d retire. That kind of revelation is helpful.
So, it’s still summer here in California and I thought I’d share some summer fun, including the table setting a friend of mine created for a dinner we attended. Per usual, my photography of said table isn’t ideal. The light was beginning to fade and my point and shoot, when held by a person who has had a glass of Chardonnay, tends to blur. But in any event, Wendy really did a great job with the table. It defines summer here in Southern California.
My friend Wendy hosted one of our “birthday” dinners and created this fun table setting using Lori Mitchell figures, a vast Waterford bowl and floating faux shell candles, and all manner of summer themed accessories. The Waterford bowl had beach sand and sea glass in the bottom, then floating on top were floating shell candles. It was soothing to imagine the calming influence of the ocean.
Since I’ve dedicated myself to improving my attitude about summer, I started thinking about what things I’ll miss once summer is in the rear view mirror and fall is starting to show promise. [Sincere apologies to my blog friends that live where it gets bitter cold and miserable in the winter months, I understand your desire to put the breaks on the whole fall/winter build up]
1. Leaving doors and windows open. Alright, my friends that live in Southern California are now saying, “we leave our doors and windows open nearly year round”. I do too, but it’s all relative. There is something wonderful about a cool breeze that slips into your home on a summer’s day. Oh, and for anyone new to my site, no, these are not my front doors but boy do I wish they were!
2. I’ll miss the outdoors, not because I don’t venture out once the season changes, but there is something energizing about spring and summer flora and fauna. It changes weekly with a regular show of new blossoms and seasonal growth.
The explosion of roses that comes with spring/summer…and no, not my house (below).
Did you know you can eat nasturtium? They have a slightly peppery flavor and are so pretty on salads.
I purchased this willow plant support (above) to give a clematis (below) a home, unfortunately the clematis didn’t return this spring as hoped. So I planted ivy geranium, giving the clematis more time and low and behold, the ivy geranium decided it was very happy and would take over the willow support. I’ll miss this display this fall/winter.
Romantica rose, ‘Guy de Maupassant’
I will definitely miss this rose. This isn’t it’s best day but it normally is the closest thing I have to peonies.
I’ll miss my over-grown morning glory, on the other side of my fence that threatens to take over the entire garden.
3. I’ll miss outdoor dining. Although the image of the beach table and chairs reminds me of the line in the movie When Harry Met Sally, where she says she (Sally) and her boyfriend had said they were happy they weren’t married with children because it meant they could have sex on the kitchen floor or fly off to Rome at a moments notice, when Harry asks, and did you? She says, no, not once and the floor was cold Mexican tile. I love the fact that we live near enough to the ocean that I can drive down MacArthur Blvd. and see it when I want but we never go to the beach. Crazy, huh?
4. I’ll miss summer food. There is something fun about eating light, fresh food off the grill. Once it’s chilly outside and the night comes at about 5:00 p.m. it’s all about comfort food for me. I have to exercise my will power where portions are concerned so I don’t balloon up during the cooler months!
{A Toile Tale}… This is a really great site (new to me). If you want to be inspired with great table settings and beautiful garden ideas, visit Linda at A Toile Tale. The above recipe is a big hit with my friends and family and really works well during the summer months.
…and I had to close with a very pretty table setting that for me says summer.
So tell me, are you ready for the change in season yet? I understand for some it’s never time. I admire those that worship the warm days, and understand {sort of} but as a crazy red head I just can’t get “into” the heat of the longer days…keep it below 75 degrees and I’m in heaven.
I’ve missed you, hope you are all doing well.
xo,
Karen
Linda @ A Toile Tale said:
Karen – Imagine my delight when I saw a photo from my post on Shrimp Shooters on your beautiful blog! Yep! It was from A Toile Tale and it was an appetizer that I served for my wine group. I’m soooo happy that it was a hit with you. Isn’t that why we share? Ironically, I almost didn’t use that post, because I didn’t think that the photos were very good. So, to see that photo looking so pretty on your blog made me vow to be less critical. I understand your self-imposed pressure to blog. Why do we do that to ourselves? I just had to lecture myself that this is supposed to be FUN!
Linda @ A Toile Tale
Karen B. said:
Linda,
I am so happy you let me know it was your lovely blog where I found this recipe…I have used it many times and each time friends and family have raved. I truly apologize for my lapse in memory as to the recipe’s origin.
I agree, this blogging business is a mixed bag of self-imposed stress on how to post topics of interest and the joy of meeting new blog land friends with shared interests. 🙂
xo,
Karen
Victoria Elizabeth Barnes said:
Sigh. I’m one of the people who can only open doors and windows half of the year… So for me, the waning of summer is depressing. I do love fall, and the holidays… but I loathe the short, cold days.
I’m always interested when bloggers reflect on their motivations… prior to starting mine, I could not have imagined how time-consuming it is. To some extent I am actually baffled at how MANY people have blogs. I only post about once a week. Lately not even that… I do not even know how people with children do it. Maybe other people are just faster than I am? I don’t do anything else quickly, why should I assume this would be any different.
It’s great to have you back, and your granddaughter is adorable. (Your skirt is pretty cute too!) I’m sure your month flew. I personally do not know how it’s September already.
Karen B. said:
Victoria,
I know what you mean, I actually think I’m a bit of a brat regarding the weather here in California. I know I take it for granted. We lived 2 years in Dallas, I don’t think there was even 6 months of weather in TX that would allow for doors and windows to be open. It was either very cold or very hot.
I am baffled at the bloggers that have 4 kids, run a house, cook (and write cookbooks), AND post daily, some including weekends. I figure I must be a slacker, but I do not possess a surplus of creative ideas and won’t even try (oh, and I do work full time). The break was very helpful for me to realize that one of the fun things about blogging is meeting some fun people that if you lived near would be your kindred spirits (in the words of Anne of Green Gables) like you, my blog friend. 🙂
Kifus said:
Welcome back, Karen! And, yay! you did take that photograph on the carousel. You both look lovely, and you seem to be enjoying it more than your granddaughter.
What a great tablesetting. I especially love the way your friend folded the napkins.
You are going to laugh but what I miss the most about summer is finally having my feet warm at all times! I have such cold feet, I can’t get to sleep without my hot water bottle (the electric blanket warms my body bot not my feet).
I’m glad you enjoyed your holiday, Karen, and even gladder that you are back!
Karen B. said:
Hi Kifus,
It really is good to be back. I know, Olivia was very unsure about the whole up and down idea of the horse, but she asked to go again once we took her down. Her mom was trying to coax a smile but like most kids, they only smile when they feel like it…she actually smiles a lot, just not for our picture.
I can relate to the whole cold feet thing. I wish they would make slippers with little heat pads in them, I’d buy a pair. Does it get very cold where you live?
Thank you for your loyal visits and comments, I thoroughly enjoy both your blog and your visits.
Karen
for the love of a house said:
Your granddaughter is precious! Love your list – my windows are open as I type! I’m definitely looking forward to fall this year. Usually I drag my feet a bit, but something about this year has me yearning for it!
best,
joan
Karen B. said:
Hi Joan,
Thanks, Olivia didn’t look her usual happy self in this image but she is truly a sweet baby. (Do all grandma’s say that?!)
We’ve had a brutal August and I promised I wouldn’t jump the gun on whining about summer’s end and the longing for cooler weather so I will smile and be happy until we get a few days of fall-like weather.
xo,
Karen
Jenny Mein said:
It is lovely to have you back Karen. I am glad you had a restful holiday with the family and now rearing to start blogging again! wonderful summery photos here, I love the nasturtiums with their wonderful orange colour, the clematis, roses of course and geraniums, summer isn’t summer without them. Love the table settings too. I too served the tiny tomatoes with basil and mozzarella cheese drizzled with olive oil for nibbles at my summer drinks party and that was successful…..very colourful and so easy to prepare.
We are having a lovely Indian Summer here in the UK and so pleased as we had a very patchy summer….can’t complain now!
Looking forward to your usual interesting and wonderful postings.
Jenny M
UK
Karen B. said:
Thanks, Jenny. It’s good to be back. I was so surprised at how fast the summer has gone by, at least on the calendar. I promise to be happy for the final few weeks of warm weather, but I do look forward to some cooler temps.
Those mozzarella skewers are so easy and taste so fresh for summer dining, I will have to try drizzling a bit of olive oil on them next time, thanks for the idea.
Glad you are having a nice bit of warm weather for the season’s end.
xo,
Karen
Linda Coble said:
Karen,
It’s so wonderful to be able to start my day off by reading your blog again. I missed you so much – even though I knew you were having a ball with Olivia, Kyle, and Jamie. The picture of you with Olivia is just darling. What a cutie! (both of you)
Wendy’s table setting is so festive and really captures everything I love about summer. Since I’m a fan of Lori Mitchell figures, I especially her use of them as part of the tablescape.
I have to say that, while I’ll miss summer, I’m ready for Fall. Fall in the Pacific Northwest is one of my favorite seasons. I’ll have to restrain myself from putting a Fall wreath on the front door until October!
Linda
Karen B. said:
Thanks, Linda! I thought of you when she used the Lori Mitchell figures, they were really cute.
I know, I always want to get my fall decorations out early, but patience is a virtue, right?
Karen
Keri said:
I’m usually clinging to summer with a death grip, but not this year. It has been SO hot that I’ve had to keep the kids inside during a lot of the summer. I’m really hoping for a temperate fall so we can spend a season outdoors. Anywhere from 50 to 70 degrees sounds wonderful to me!
Your photos are lovely. I wish roses would cover the back of my house like they do in that beautiful stone one here.
Cheers!
Keri
Karen B. said:
Hi Keri, 50 to 70 would be my ideal year round. I think because I’ve never lived through a severe winter I always long for snow, when some of my transplanted Easterner friend caution me about wishing for that. 🙂 Our last few weeks have felt more like Houston that Southern California! Bring on the cool mornings and evenings, please. Have a great weekend. Karen
Karen B. said:
Hi Keri,
50 to 70 would be my ideal year round. I think because I’ve never lived through a severe winter I always long for snow, when some of my transplanted Easterner friend caution me about wishing for that. 🙂 Our last few weeks have felt more like Houston that Southern California! Bring on the cool mornings and evenings, please.
Have a great weekend.
Karen
Ricki Jill Treleaven said:
Karen, I am not ready for autumn! I am planning yet another summer tablescape for next week. We are spending the weekend here at Lake Martin with our teenage daughter and two of her friends. We will be water skiing, wake boarding, and knee boarding most of the afternoon. It is too hot to be decorating for fall! Besides, I like spring and summer best.
I might try to bring in some subtle fall stuff late next week, but nothing that looks ugly and dead!!! ;P
I really enjoyed your post. You and I are soul sisters! Your photos are all inspiring.
Karen B. said:
Hi Ricki Jill,
I understand, spring is lovely and when it’s here I’m always ready for it, but for me the change of seasons marks a new beginning and so as October is usually our fall, weather wise, I’m ready for that season too. 🙂
Karen
Gretchen said:
Karen, I’m ready for fall mainly because I can’t handle this humidity any longer! We are so spoiled in So Cal, but that’s why we chose to live here, right? Where is this crazy weather coming from?
I’m so happy to have your blog to follow again. I really missed all your lovely pictures. Speaking of pictures, the ones of Wendy’s table are so cute and clever. I loved the color scheme – so summer-y. The Lori Mitchell figure was the perfect whimsical touch.
Karen B. said:
Gretchen,
You’re right, we are spoiled and when I whine about the heat and humidity I try to make sure I’m not in ear shot from anyone living in Houston or other regions of the south. 🙂
Karen
Loi Thai said:
Olivia is very cute and precious despite a little pout, haha 🙂 What will I miss most about summer? The long days. I don’t like the heat or the mosquitoes, but it’s wonderful to come home from work and still have good light.
xoxo
Loi
Karen B. said:
Loi,
LOL, a pout is the perfect description! She wanted to ride the horse, not pose for a picture.
I’m with you, my first on the list favorite thing about summer is the longer days. It’s a little gift of time.
xo,
Karen