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I’m back and ready to pick up where I left off. Some of you read my post about (and were so supportive of) my hiatus from blogging [read: writers block]. Its surprising what a little mindless relaxation and rest from a hobby will do for you. I was so touched by all of your kindness and encouragement. Thank you! ♥ Karen
The Real Work
It may be that when we no longer know what to do
we have come to our real work,and that when we no longer know which way to go
we have come to our real journey.The mind that is not baffled is not employed.
The impeded stream is the one that sings.
Thank you, Anita of Castles, Crowns and Cottages, for the introduction to the above quote. It truly made me feel better about writing and the ideas required to feel creative.
My vacation gave me time to ponder what I want the blog to be about and I’ve decided I really do enjoy writing about home interests. Nothing all that deep, I’m more about the fluff of it all. I tried imagining me writing about other topics but it always came back to the uncomplicated fact that when asked, “what interests you?” the answer was elementary. Gardens (both working in and learning new things about); my home (making the occasional improvements and tweaking, always tweaking, this and that); and entertaining friends and family therein. These are what brings me the most pleasure. Simple, right?
So…for a new post after a long vacation I decided to share some inspiring garden rooms, as I refer to them. Summer is near its end but here in Southern California we will suffer experience heat through September.
When I was growing up I don’t recall there being the vast array of options for creating rooms outdoors the way they exist today. Did we have a patio? Absolutely. Did we have a table and seating for outdoor dining? Yes, indeed. My dad grilled all through the summer months. But would you have looked at this space and imagined some of the additional comforts and decorative bits and pieces we now include in our ‘outdoor dining rooms’? NO.
So, these are a few of my favorite dining spaces and a few outdoor living spaces as well. I’ve included an image of my current patio and the newer pea gravel space under the cooling shade of two very large Ficus Benjamina trees. (Are roots an issue? Yes they are. My gardener takes great pains annually to cut off the roots that creep out from about a 5′ radius of the trees base and that seems to stem their destructive ways). He also strongly recommends that we prune the 2 trees often, this gives them a reason to put new growth at the top, not at the roots.
So, without further ado…here are some wonderful outdoor spaces that can give us one last relaxing sigh as summer heads out and fall comes into focus.
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Finally, truth be told, I wouldn’t mind this outdoor experience as well. I know I’m being naive, I’ve never lived where it snows and I’ve been told by some with experience in such weather conditions, that it would only take one brutal winter in the east to cure me of the romantic notions I have about snow!
Do you have outdoor room(s) you enjoy during the warmer months of the year?
Kelly - Talk of the House said:
Welcome back! We have missed you here. All of these outdoor rooms are beautiful, and I am lusting after your pergola (or arbor…or whatever the overhead structure is called!) I needed all of these images to inspire me since I have set aside this weekend as my “outside work” time. I do love our porch, but when the heat index is well over 100 degrees I don’t love it as much. (But if the lizards were gone, I would live out there in the spring and fall!) Thank you for sharing all the lovely images!
Karen B. said:
Kelly, It feels good to be back. Lizards? Oh my. Before our cat died of old age, she used to track down lizards. I actually don’t mind them as long as they stay outdoors and we don’t see them often. They probably love your outdoor patio space because it is warm and a bit protected from the wild. 🙂 What are your garden tasks this time of year? October is a big planting month out west. Enjoy your weekend. xo
On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 4:11 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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laney said:
…so happy you are home!… and yes…we have two outside spaces we use here in atlanta in the spring summer autumn season…our front porch…you know southerners…we must have a true porch…and our little back porch….one is for morning…and one for the afternoon…depending on the sun…the front with a swing and ferns…the back with flowers…a fountain…and another swing (oh! southerners!)…i too have a bit of pea gravel…i simply love the sound of the crunch…each porch has a gate… because i love the thought of a secret space…of what lies beyond…goodness!…this all sounds so much grander than it is!…blessings laney
Karen B. said:
I love that about southerners…a proper porch, lucky you to have two! For a time there was an architect who became very popular in our area for major remodels. He was known for creating outdoor porches that were so inviting. Mr. B has always wanted one. And yes, maybe we romanticize them a bit, imagine sipping tea and rocking while watching the world go by, while in reality I have a hard time sitting still! 🙂 xo
On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 4:50 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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taylor greenwalt said:
I’m glad your back…to tell you the truth I need to work on my outdoor rooms…They need something against the walls of the house…maybe shutters or plants….I would like them to look like the images above…
Karen B. said:
I love the idea of an old shutter hanging/leaning against a wall. I need to get to estate sales and the like more often. I love the hunt for something like that. Don’t you sometimes feel pressure to keep the outside rooms looking good year round living in Southern California? I know I do. No snow to blanket things. 🙂 On the other hand, we do get to enjoy the outdoors almost year round. xo
On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 6:42 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Victoria • Restoring our Victorian said:
It will not surprise you that my favorite of the above is the one with the fancy mirror… I have been trying to make a start at the very least THINKING about our backyard. (I’d like to say I have begun planning, but really the more I look on Pinterest, the LESS motivated I feel.)
I am so glad you are back! I am counting on you to get me into the spirit of fall.
Karen B. said:
One room at a time, right? I think your kitchen ideas are the seeds for some pretty great projects for you and Paul this year. [Like how bossy I’ve become? :-)] I’m probably only going to annoy my Eastern friends with the constant praise of cooler temps. I really need to live where cold is taken seriously and without romantic notions, at least one season, to tone down the love of fall/winter rhetoric. xo
On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 7:11 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Jacki said:
Thanks, I needed that! Here in the Dallas area I am hopeful that in a few weeks we can start using our outdoor area. It’s been so hot I have to make myself go out there just to water the plants!
Karen B. said:
Jacki, We lived in Arlington for 2 y ears in the early eighties. As a native Californian it was pretty eye opening. I remember being excited that the house we bought had a pool, that was until I realized that in the heat of summer the only time you could get into it without frying was early, early morning and late, late afternoons. 🙂 Fall and spring were the best months in the Metroplex! Enjoy the upcoming season. xo
On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 7:38 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Cayleys Gmail said:
I love my courtyard. It is like being in a little outdoor restaurant in Tuscany or Provence. I will send you a photo. We have LOVED dining in the courtyard this summer.
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Karen B. said:
Cayley – Your courtyard is a prime example of the best of all design components. The space is magical in the evenings, with twinkle lights and the fountain…then when the temps dip a bit, the fire in the fireplace. I’d love to feature more of it sometime. I’ll have to visit and take some pics. xo, K
beggingforattention said:
thrilled to hear your voice again karen and that you feel refreshed!
pinned images of your garden for future inspiration, really stunning. and how correct about our parents outdoor spaces, oh so simple.
on the topic of snow you will have soooo many opinions.i live it and i love it, my romantic cozy fantasies are enriched with each new snowfall. but……more will tell you what a pain it is!
come for a visit!!
debra
Karen B. said:
What I wouldn’t give to jump on a plane and visit your “neck of the woods”. I’ve been to Illinois once, Chicago was amazing but what I remember most was how pretty the surrounding areas were to drive through. Not to mention how fun it would be to meet a kindred spirit and visit your stores! Someday, maybe. xo
On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 8:34 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Vicki said:
Yay, more Garden, Home & Party! Love your outdoor spaces with the blue and white playing off the gray and the sweet pink flowers. I like the rooms you chose, with the soft colors and letting the garden be the star. Finally, as a former Midwesterner, I want to point out that there’s no one sitting huddled under the throws in the wicker chair in the snow. 🙂
Karen B. said:
Good point, Vicki. I hadn’t noticed but you’re right, not even a sweet dog curled up near a chair in the snow. That styled spot was probably done by some California designer. 🙂 Karen
On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 8:59 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Chronica Domus said:
Welcome back Karen! I look forward to reading future posts now you’ve enjoyed a well earned break. I’m sure it did wonders for your inspiration.
Karen B. said:
I’m eager to share again. I confess, the idea of R&R was something I had trouble getting used to. It’s hard for me to sit still, but that is exactly what I needed. Thanks for coming by, I look forward to celebrating the season with my blog friends. xo
On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 10:12 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Tone on Tone Loi Thai said:
Welcome back, Karen! So wonderful to see your new post on my blogroll 🙂 As for outdoor garden rooms, September is a lovely time to enjoy them in DC. Cheers~
Karen B. said:
Hi Loi, It’s nice to be back and just in time for my favorite season! xo
On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 12:01 PM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Linda Coble said:
Karen,
Welcome back! I absolutely loved the new post! What fantastic outdoor rooms! I loved the pics of your yard because it reminds me of time spent there with you. I have to admit that my favorite pic was of the sleeping puppy with the stuffed toy. Adorable!! I knew that I’d miss your post and it’s such a comfort to be able to look forward to it again. It’s like a visit from a dear friend.
Karen B. said:
Thanks, Linda. I know, that puppy with the stuffed toy was so sweet. Pictures of puppys and kittens always capture a sigh of love from me. xo
On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 12:59 PM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Dawn said:
So happy that you are back, Karen! It’s wonderful that you have followed your heart and are writing about your true passions. Your patio is just lovely! It must be so nice to sit in the shade of the Ficus trees and enjoy your yard. Our little Midwestern home has two outdoor seating areas ~ a front porch with its original swing and rocking chair, and a back deck, near our shady pine trees and overlooking our colorful Cutting Garden. Our home feels much more spacious in the summertime, when we can enjoy our two outdoor ‘rooms.’ Thanks for sharing so much inspiration today! ♡
Karen B. said:
Hi Dawn, The idea of sitting on the front porch in a swing makes me happy. So relaxing. And pine trees nearby would be an added bonus. I do enjoy those days when there’s time to relax and enjoy the season. I agree, outdoor rooms just extend our living space, don’t they. Thanks for stopping by. xo
On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 1:35 PM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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D'Arcy H said:
Those are ficus trees?? I didn’t know they got that big! Must be a California thing. I love our big deck in the backyard, especially when the gardening and lawn mowing is done. It’s so nice to enjoy the view. I love sharing our front porch swing with various feline friends. And I’m excited about our new, expanded side porch!
Glad you are back to the blog world. Happy fall! -D’Arcy
Karen B. said:
D’Arcy, Cats are so intuitive about finding the best place to rest. We could learn a thing about relaxing. Your side deck will be great. Almost like you have a wrap around porch on your home. Yes, ficus trees go nuts here. Most professionals discourage using them in most yards due to their roots, but they are far enough away from the house/foundation in our case that we just keep a close eye on them. The provide the best shade. Happy fall to you, I hear Washington has been enjoying some great sunshine. xo
On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 10:06 PM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Leslie Harris aka Gwen Moss said:
I love every one of these images, especially your own. My eyes are always drawn to wonderful garden and backyard courtyards.( Sniff. I miss my gardening). And as far as your blog content goes, I think we’re best when we’re being ourselves. I love how you just put it out there. What am I interested in? And the answer will give us our writing material.
I’m so glad you’re back.
Karen B. said:
Thanks, Leslie. Hey, you live pretty close, you can come and garden in my back yard anytime. 🙂 Your new (older) home will have garden space right? I’m sure right now you’re thinking, “garden, get in line, we’ve got bigger issues right now”. xo
On Thu, Sep 11, 2014 at 9:03 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Gretchen said:
Karen, I’ve missed your blog and am so happy you’re back!
I have loved the idea of outdoor rooms ever since I first noticed them in magazines. You’ve shown us so many beautiful and inviting examples, especially in your own backyard! I hope you’ll be able to help me create one in our next house.
Karen B. said:
Thanks so much, you’ve always been so supportive of me and this blog biz. Of course I will be willing to help you create the yard of your dreams when you move. 🙂 xo, Karen
On Fri, Sep 12, 2014 at 8:38 PM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Gretchen said:
You have such a creative vision for small spaces. I can hardly wait to see what you’ll design!
The Lady's Life said:
Hi Karen, So glad you have decided to continue. I know we chatted about this a little, but you are so spot- on. The challenge in blogging, or any writing I suppose, is to sift through all of the “shoulds” and “ought-tos” and find one’s own voice. When we think and speak and write from authenticity it cuts through the blather and becomes more interesting and more meaningful. I read an interview with Elizabeth Gilbert of “Eat, Pray, Love” fame, and she said that she made several false starts on her subsequent book, because when she read over her writing, she said, it did not sound like her voice. She said it sounded like what she thought she ought to sound like. Interesting that all writers experience similar things. This was such a good post! Have a fun weekend! xo, N.
Karen B. said:
Thanks, Nina. This is interesting. I enjoyed Gilbert’s first book but haven’t read her second. Blogland can be daunting and it can easily allow uncertainty to creep in. I’m refreshed and ready to move forward with what makes me smile and hope that others enjoy it as well. I guess that’s probably common. 🙂 xo, Karen
On Sat, Sep 13, 2014 at 6:44 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Anita Rivera said:
Dear, dear Karen,
REST is always a great opportunity to HEAL no matter if it’s our bodies, our minds or our creativity. That is why I no longer post every Friday night as I did for years. I only post now every three weeks and I’m all the better for it. I’m ready to come back but during my rest period, I still visit others so as to keep up with my favorites and friends.
It is so kind of you to come to visit me! I welcome you back and hope you will enjoy your blogging days! Anita
Karen B. said:
Anita, Thanks so much Anita. I shared your recommended Wendell Berry quote on my first post after my R&R. I was inspired and motivated by his words. Thank you for that. I will look forward to your beautiful posts every 3 weeks, or how often you send them. Enjoy these final days of summer and the welcoming crispness of fall. xo, Karen
On Mon, Sep 15, 2014 at 2:24 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Teresa @ Splendid Sass said:
I am glad to see you are back. Sometimes we just need time to think.
Isn’t the teddy bear and puppy the most adorable ever?
I love your choices here and had to pin several.
Teresa
xoxo
Karen B. said:
Thanks, Teresa. It’s surprising what a little R&R can do for a person. I’m excited to be back during this, my favorite, season. Lots of fun ideas out there. xo, Karen
On Mon, Sep 15, 2014 at 8:31 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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