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I confess, I’m pretty organized nearly year round. I’m one of those people that really can’t relax unless there’s order in my surroundings. I know this kind of obsession has been referred to using a wide array of adjectives, some less complimentary than others. 🙂
That said, even I find certain parts of my home can be found in various stages of disarray different times of the year. That’s what new years are for, to clean up, clear out clutter, and get back on track.
Sometime last year I followed a link that has me thinking differently about what I keep and what I giveaway, donate, or dump. I’m going to give you the name (and link) to this site, but you have to promise you won’t immediately dismiss it by the name alone. (there was a time I would have!)
The Minimalists is a site that is co-authored to by a pair of young men that for various reasons (you can read their story) found themselves pairing down. Here are two of the passages that most influenced me and have made my clean/organize tasks much more effective…
What people don’t understand, however, is that minimalism is not about deprivation. Rather, minimalists—anyone who’s deliberately seeking a life with less stuff—find more value in the stuff they do own. They do this by jettisoning the superfluous, keeping only the possessions that serve a purpose or bring joy. Everything else goes by the wayside.
There is no Minimalist Rulebook. We’re all different. The things that add value to one man’s life may not add value to yours. So hold on to that hair straightener, those colorful socks, that collection of angel statuettes—but only if they are appropriate for your life. Only if they serve a purpose or bring you joy. – The Minimalists
I promise I’m not trying to convert anyone, I’m only sharing what has started making sense to me, in part because after 32 years in the same smallish home we’re bursting at the seams. I have 7 boxes of collectible sports cards, two snowboards and a surfboard that belong to son #1 (now living in Austin, where there is no ocean and the nearest mountain is a lengthy drive). Fortunately, son #2 lives a short 15 minutes away and he (sorry, Sarah) has taken his treasures to their house. I’ve discovered that a lot of what I lovingly collected over the years is no longer needed/wanted.
The book, Organizing For Dummies has a cheat sheet of the tried and true methods for a good new year organization/clean out session. Here are the basic five easy steps:
1. Determine the goal for the room or closet.
Maybe it’s as simple as cleaning out a bookcase or adding a tray to an existing coffee table where items can be corralled.
Or maybe its as simple as adding hooks to a shelf to handle the extra mugs in the cupboard (the ones you love, remember?).
2. Identify the limitations of the room or closet. Like this clever idea from Martha Stewart. If you don’t have enough space for essentials, there are stores (Container Store, and others) that have efficient tools for making your space handle the extras.
Not to mention Martha’s clever ideas for keeping up with the ‘should do more than once a year’ tasks.
3. Sort the items in the room or closet into the well known categories of STAY, MOVE, SHARE or GO.
4. Determine what items (storage systems, bins or boxes) will help you to keep the space organized. I love the look of these PB baskets and could see them helping with the ever-present storage issue in our home.
{Pottery Barn – Daytrip Lidded Baskets}
5. Reassemble the room or closet/drawer.
Do you go through some kind of cleaning/organizing this time of year? Do you have any tips for the process? I’d love to hear from you.
Happy Wednesday, have a productive rest of the week and a relaxing weekend.
Anita Rivera said:
Oh like you Karen, I too cannot relax in my home unless I know that things are put away, organized as I like them, and truly,that my kitchen counter is clear!
It feels like a good year to continue on the thought of decluttering not just our homes (gorgeous pictures by the way!) but to start organizing our goals. That is why I am not going to be focusing my time on posting blogs for the time being. HOWEVER, I will continue to visit blogs, I will also leave my blog intact (I couldn’t even bear to delete it!) and yes, I have been asked and I have seriously considered taking my best blog posts and tweaking them for publication. The only problem is all the photos I’ve used; 95% of them are not mine. So to redo my blog as a book would require a lot of time to redesign the visuals. However, my goal away from blogging is to develop my poetry skills, a genre not suitable for my current blogging audience.
THANK YOU for your visit. It really means so much to me, this outpouring of support from all you dear and talented women. I WILL BE AROUND! Anita
Karen B. said:
Anita, I know there are several of us out there who like things to be in order day in and day out. I think its something organic, either you are born with the “obsession” or not. Of my two sons, one is like mom and one is like dad! [?] You have touched so many lives and I believe you will discover a new method for doing just that. Poetry seems the ideal vehicle for your incredible talent where words are concerned. I have always left your site touched and buoyed by your words. I will revisit regularly and since I’ve subscribed, I’m sure I’ll get a notice when you do contact all of us. I wish you the best on achieving all of your goals for your journey through this beautiful life. xo, Karen
On Wed, Jan 14, 2015 at 4:07 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Dawn said:
What a wonderful post, Karen! In our family, my husband is the ‘minimalist,’ while I am the ‘collector.’ I love being surrounded by collections of antiques, folk art pieces, and small treasures collected while traveling. So much more than just things, they tell the stories of my life ~ the special people and places near and dear to my heart. It’s such fun to display different collections throughout the year! While we are inside during the cold, winter months, I always try to organize our closets. ♡
Karen B. said:
Dawn, They say opposites attract. My hubby is the collector and I can sometimes be impatient with even my own treasures if they sit too long. That is why, like you, I rotate my collectibles that I keep displayed. I was hesitant to introduce the word “minimalist”. My home is so far from being what most would call a minimalist setting. I love the collected treasures I’ve amassed through life’s journey. Each and every item brings a smile to my face for the memory it invokes. The paring down I’ve done over the past half year has been of the things that I sometimes purchased that weren’t *exactly* what I was looking for at the time and maybe I settled for this piece, but I never truly loved it. Does that make sense? Clothes are an area that I’ve really worked hard on since items seem to get stuffed to the back of the closet, never to be worn again. Sorry for this long winded reply! [?] xo, Karen
On Wed, Jan 14, 2015 at 4:45 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Vicki said:
Hi Karen, I really like the advice to determine the goal of the room or closet. I think that will help keep me on track. My problem is determining the right storage solutions. I think I need shallower containers– deep baskets allow me to keep too much, and then I forget what’s even in them. I too am a long way away from the dreaded “m” word- ha ha! Thanks for the inspiration and motivation!
Karen B. said:
Vicki, I truly thought long and hard about even posting the M word. I used to have such a poor impression of what minimalism really is. This site has made me realize it’s like decor, you do what makes you happy where getting rid of things are concerned. I wouldn’t have bothered to read this 10 years ago. Now, I see that all the items I saved, certain one of my boys and/or their wives would be thrilled to own “it”, just didn’t happen. Understandably, young women have their own style (I know I did) and most don’t want the Waterford Crystal or Lenox China! [?] xo, Karen
On Wed, Jan 14, 2015 at 8:21 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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D'Arcy H said:
I wish I had a little of your obsessive gene … but alas, I’m a sentimental collector (and procrastinator), and so is Eric, so we are burdened by a ton of stuff. I admire the minimalist ethic and we need to get into that frame of mind if we’re ever to build our retirement house. I should start by purging my tiny, overstuffed closet!! Tomorrow …
–D’Arcy
Karen B. said:
D’Arcy, I have only started this quest in the last 6 months and it’s because I can’t put another thing anywhere in this house. Once I started thinking about it with the thought that only what I love and use (which is still a lot of stuff) will remain, to got easier. I have to be in the mood to actually get stuff out, but when the mood strikes I pounce on the opportunity. Mr. B is the collector and has a more difficult time parting with his treasures, but even he’s gotten on board. Wish us luck. xo, Karen
On Wed, Jan 14, 2015 at 7:20 PM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Chronica Domus said:
Such a marvelous subject to be tackled throughout the year and not just in January. I wish I could follow my own advice on this one!
The only tip I can give is be careful what comes into the house and try and only bring in what you LOVE.
When I first moved to the United States I was shocked at how many thrift stores there were (something I had not seen too many of in England). It didn’t take me long to figure out that we live in a throwaway society, and it is always better to buy fewer things but of better quality. I guess that was tip number 2.
Karen B. said:
CD, If only I had adopted that philosophy years ago, I would have saved a lot of money. Well, better late than never. I have been faithful to only buying what I love as of late and it’s felt good to give some of the items I no longer use/love to a few friends that are thrilled with the gift and I’ve sold a few things on eBay. But, like you say, we do seem to be a throw away society and it saddens me. Wish me luck on this year’s goals. I may even have a half empty drawer or closet when I’m finished…if I finish! [?] xo, Karen
On Wed, Jan 14, 2015 at 7:25 PM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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leslie@prettypetals said:
Wonderful post Karen. I am in the midst of paring down .. and in my “minimalist” mode;) After raising kids you accumulate SO much STUFF and it ‘s difficult to part with it. My kids both live in apartments and we are storing some of their things.
When we moved and started building, we sold and gave away so much prior to putting things in storage. With the major construction nearing the end, we are slowly bringing things back in and purging again. Our new home is smaller and we designed it to maximize storage space.
Like you, I function much better when there is order. Great ideas here!
xxleslie
Karen B. said:
Leslie,
I think a move is probably the best incentive to sort through things. We have been in our house so long and with an attic space it’s crazy. We don’t even know what is half of the boxes us there. We’re both committed to taking care of that if for not other reason than to think what our kids would have to go through to sell—not that that is anything on the immediate horizon, but still.
How great to have the opportunity to maximize storage in your new home. I’ve loved what you’ve shared so far.
xo,
Karen
Linda Coble said:
Karen, I’ve always that I was very well organized but after reading your post and seeing the pictures, I realize that I have a long way to go. As I get older, I realize that I don’t want to leave a mess for our son and daughter-in-law to deal with so I definitely have the motivation. The 5 easy steps for re-organizing are a life saver! Many thanks, my friend.
Karen B. said:
Linda, I loved some of Martha’s fixes for organizing and maximizing space. Leave it to MS. xo, Karen
On Thu, Jan 15, 2015 at 11:13 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Victoria • Restoring our Victorian said:
Well, I am late to this post… Because I am still disorganized from the holidays.
I struggle with an attachment to things. (Obviously, things I like.) But also there is an element of feeling bad about getting rid of things. Even if I don’t use them. If I still sort of like it, I have a hard time giving it up.
I read a book on hoarding years ago and I was alarmed at how much of it resonated with me. No joke. They listed three things you should ask yourself about any item you struggle to get rid of:
Do I use this?
Do I need this?
Do I love this?
I have to remind myself there is not category that reads – can I imagine a scenario in which I might use this 50 years down the road?
Karen B. said:
Victoria, hahaha. Here is the way to look at it that works for me…*if I get rid of this item [I no longer use and love], someone out there is going to be so excited when they discover it on eBay or at the Goodwill thrift store. *Since that is some of the crap I’m weeding through, finds from my quest for that perfect accessory…its a lot of ‘decorative accessories’ that I was sure I absolutely had to have! You are young and I don’t think you’re ready to shed the great finds, I never thought I would be. Then one day I had a ___ birthday and a light went on [fill in the blank] 🙂 The other part of it is the eye-opening revelation by both daughter-in-laws, never spoken but implied, they have their own accessory quests and don’t want 90% of the stuff I was saving for that one day when our sons would marry and have wives that would be fighting over my priceless crap! [?] xo, Karen
On Fri, Jan 16, 2015 at 8:44 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Luisa said:
Excelent!!
Have a good day!
Luisa
Karen B. said:
Thanks, Luisa. Have a wonderful weekend! xo, Karen
On Fri, Jan 16, 2015 at 9:50 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Taylor Greenwalt said:
I need to organize so bad…I have 2 houses of furniture to go through and do something with…I don’t even know where to start!
Karen B. said:
Julie, That’s exactly how I felt about all of the decorative accessories and a few items we inherited when my folks passed away. We gave our kids anything they wanted and saved what we wanted but as you might imagine, that still left a lot to donate, give away, and sell. I’m beginning to see light at the end of the tunnel. I hope to be in a much better spot this time next year. [?] xo Karen
On Sat, Jan 17, 2015 at 7:58 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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cindy hattersley said:
Oh boy do I need this! I am bookmarking for when I can find the time to dig in! What a fabulous post!!
Karen B. said:
Cindy, I know what you mean, timing is everything. [?] xo, Karen
On Sun, Jan 18, 2015 at 8:02 AM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Kristy Woodson Harvey said:
Oh, Karen. I just love this post. I’m totally on your page. As you know, we moved out of our house, but we left it mostly furnished and with a ton of stuff. I took the bare essentials to the house we’re renting and do you know how many times I’ve gone home to get things? Once. Because I forgot my juicer. We were walking around the house yesterday, opening cabinets and just cringing. What are we going to do with all this stuff?? Purge it, I hope!! Much love to you!
Karen B. said:
Kristy, ‘Garage storage’ is my test as to whether I’ll regret donating/giving something away. I pack a few items that never get used away in the garage, and if I have second thoughts I retrieve them…that rarely happens. The whole process has been helpful and pretty satisfying. [?] xo, Karen
On Sun, Jan 18, 2015 at 7:38 PM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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The pictures are awesome! I love all the design and storage ideas! Lovely post! Thanks!
Karen B. said:
Rossana,
Thanks for stopping by.
Karen
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Karen B. said:
Thanks for the link back, Kristy! You’re the best!
xo,
Karen
Gretchen said:
Karen, as you know I share your passion (some might call it obsession 😀) for organization. To me there is nothing more exciting than opening the door to a perfectly organized closet! I love the statement about keeping only the things that have a purpose or that bring joy. I’m going to remember that as I continue to downsize.
Karen B. said:
Gretchen, We’ll have to help each other remember this commitment to living with what we love! I have a determination right now, but it’s only January. 🙂 Karen
On Fri, Jan 23, 2015 at 7:46 PM, Garden, Home & Party wrote:
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Darria said:
Lovely post! I really need to get more organized this year! Thanks for the tips! Greets, Storage New Malden Ltd.
Karen B. said:
Darria,
Enjoy your weekend!
Karen
Nia said:
I definitely want to get more organized this year! But this time for real! I’m working on the system that will make this wish to come true! Thanks for the post! It is really helpful!